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You Only Live Once....

I used to really care about other people's opinions. Growing up it seems like you always want to please others. You want to make your parents, teachers, family proud, you want to be perceived as cool by classmates and the older kids, but the one person you don't aim to please is yourself. You always seem to come last.

As I have gotten older, I have really came to the conclusion, I don't care what other people think. 

Do I want to be liked? Yes, who doesn't? 

Do I care if you think your car or house is nicer than mine? Nope.

What if people judge me for my life choices? That's okay, let them think what they want. It doesn't matter what choices you make, someone will always think you should be doing something different.

I know the Hubby and I have went on a lot of vacations this year and that people think we are nuts, but I don't care. Life is about living. We currently don't have children, so why not enjoy being able to take a trip on a whim?!?

So that being said, we went to Atlantic City again last weekend. We had a great time and got really sun burnt!

We stayed at the Tropicana again. You can't beat it. The hotel is right on the beach!

We had to limit out sun exposure after spending too much time out the first day!

I'm happy to have my partner in crime to enjoy life with! Life's too short to care what everyone else thinks. I enjoy getting to make memories that will last us a lifetime!

Until next time,



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